Why Women Love Bend Over !


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Nearly every human behavior has a psychological or if you like a scientific reason if not an explanation. The burden of proof in some researches only lies on the future research on given subject. In this case, the common scientific explanation or suggestion about a sexual behavior is taken to be the Gospel truth until proven wrong by further research.  Before you start calling me names I would like to point out that most of these sexual behaviors have been studied and researched on other animals. 

With enough proof in other species such scientific evidence becomes a worthy piece of research for being tried and tested to see if it also applies across other species Homo sapiens included. This post will focus on showing relation that has been observed and documented on female sexual behavior commonly called ‘ Bend over' in species, why it occurs, what it means and when female species ‘Bend Over’ …if true this could be very interesting scientific phenomenon...............

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When No strings Attached is the Only Option



Nothing beats a man hands down, than a futile chase of a mate who will neither give in, to his yielding demands nor show him total rejection. Its better a girl you are falling rejects you from the beginning than keeping you there dangling with your emotions, while she has absolutely no intent of dating you. In the recent past there are several people who are crying foul when faced with such a situation. Most girls have mastered the art of playing hard to get but some go over board and will drive men crazy who are looking for serious relationships. Have you seen young men going out of their way to impress their purported GFs, only to get a series of disappointments? This can be summarized by an old axiom ‘Nothing hurts, than loving someone who will not love you back’ If you have been in such a situation I have a solution for you. This solution is based on an attitude that has been seen to work miracles for those who dare nurture it.

Men are disadvantaged in this dating game, since women call the shot, when it comes to choice of their mate. This is a natural fact and you cannot fight nature but adopt! There are a number of things that you can do, to up your game, reduce your rejection rate and improve your dating esteem immensely. These are the few important things that will help you get

Why Men would rather marry a ‘Whore’ than Conservative Girl



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Nothing confuses a man than the choice of a mate who will be his life time partner, the mother of his kids and his first lady. While this confusion reigns, majority of men getting married are torn between making choices on the best partner out of the girls they have been dating. This is not strange since many men will have at least two girls to compare in their final moment before they can decide on where they will settle. In this case there are a number of factors that come to play when men are selecting spouses. 
 
One of the most important factor than men look for is the ability of the woman they are marrying to satisfy them sexually. Many men can never compromise on this one explaining why many men pressurize their partner by persistence advances to ensure they are making the right decision on mate selection.  Nothing can be as deceitful as a man who marries a woman who cannot satisfy his sexual drive. In most cases this man may end up cheating. So this brings up, this question; ‘Should you marry a ‘whore’ or the conservative girl?

·         Marrying a Girl from Ocha (Muchatha)
One of my friends argues that the best way to get married and live happily thereafter, is to get a girl from your village, bring her to

DO YOU KNOW: You Might Be Infected with Chlamydia and Have No IDEA!



If you have not heard about Chlamydia infection before, this post will enlighten you on all that you need to know about Chlamydia infection and help you deal with it. You might want to read this post carefully since you might be infected with Chlamydia and living with it unknowingly! Shocking as it sounds; Chlamydia is one of the common sexually transmitted diseases that might go unnoticed and easily transmitted to sexual partners.

It is possible to get this infection from an infected woman since there is a high chance of about 75% infection from women while men its barely 50%. You might probably be noticing unusual discomforts and slight pain in your groin recently, if you have had such an experience it might be important you know more about Chlamydia infection in men and seek treatment immediately! 

What is Chlamydia and what are the Signs of Infection in Men?
Chlamydia is a bacterial infection that is not easily noticed in

History of Women Sex Toys: How the First Vibrator was Made


 Innovative Medical Technology


It’s amazing how innovative technology can develop to be used for diverse purposes. One such medical invention that is today used by millions of women round the world is the vibrator. It was in the early 18th century that doctors devised a device for treating female hysteria by manipulative pelvic massage. This device was initially made for medical purpose and the first one was a steam powered devices. 

The inventor was an American Physician called George Taylor and he named it manipulator. Initially meant for helping doctors with strained wrists’ get relief, it was further developed by Joseph Granville and patented as an electromechanical vibrator.

·         Vibrator Becomes Personal


It was not until 1902 that the device was available for retail when an American company made and

Should Vibrators be sold on Prescription Only In Kenya?



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Not until recently did I know that vibrators can be easily acquired in the street of Nairobi. I thought it was just fascination by people in town, who say that Sex toys are the ‘new arrival’. I still can ‘t believe if men toys can make any good business in Kenya but am tempted to think that vibrators are possibly making good business. I am also surprised to see how Kenyans have become sexually liberated from our stringent African cultural practices with toys retailing for as low as 500 bob in online stores in Kenya. There are a few sites that are doing this business and offering to deliver the toys within CBD.

 This begs the question, are people interested in buying them?  Obviously there is no market that can be successful without sustainable demand and supply. If there is supply there is certainly someone willing and ready to buy. Many Kenyans would love to remain silent on this kind of topic preferring to discuss it in the confines of their bedrooms. I would like to examine the truth about the history of vibrators, legal and ethical debates about the use and sale of vibrators round the world.  

 For What Purpose were Vibrators initially made?
Vibrator was a medical invention that was intended to manage or treat

Do you believe Conspiracy Theory about Origin of HIV ?

HIV/AIDS is certainly one of the most deadly diseases that are thought to have been invented as a biological weapon in the US laboratories. The theory purports that the US foreign policy was concern in controlling the population of black people and homosexuals. 



Whether this theory is true or not , there are some shocking facts about this theory that have formed the basis of serious debate on whether or not HIV was intended to be a biological weapon directed towards black people.

In this post I would like to explain the conspiracy theory of history of HIV and let you be the judge on whether this theory stands the test of truth.

The Conspiracy Theory about the Origin of HIV /AIDS
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    Manufacture of HIV in US Labs
Although the Scientists round the world have reached a consensus about the origin of AIDs to be in Africa in the early 1930’s, the conspiracy theory sharply

Online Dating in Nairobi Review : Sugar Daddy Dating Site in Kenya


Seeking Arrangement Dating Site Kenya

Online dating in Nairobi is not only challenging but confusing since very few people can trust people who they meet online. Due to lack of dating sites that can be trusted many dating sites come and go but a few dating sites have been persistent.

 If you have been following dating online in Kenya you will realize there is a growing trend of upcoming dating sites for Kenyans. I would like to begin

Beware Commonly used Drugs for Spiking Drinks in Clubs

Many revelers in Nairobi don’t even know what mchele means, they have only heard ‘ Kuwekewa Mchele’ which means your drink getting spiked. I would like to unearth this mystery of drugs used to spike drinks, the so commonly called Mchele. They resemble a grain of rice in size and this is the reason zinaitwa MCHELE.
This is a crime that has be in the rise with men being the most common target, after they are spiked they are frisked and dumped in funny places. 
Don’t be a victim learn from other people experience and read the tips on :

 HOW TO AVOID GETTING SPIKED.

Spiking and how it’s done

Spiking involves intake of huge amount of alcoholic beverage that may either intoxicated with other chemicals or just normal alcohol in large amounts. I have heard stories of people spiked with changaa’ added to their beer(funny but true!). Don’t just think spiking only involves

How to Avoid your Drink Getting Spiked in Nairobi Clubs

For one reason or another we have constantly had of cases of friends or relatives whose drinks get spiked or they are druged by criminals in Nairobi Clubs. This scene in the picture below is very common in Nairobi.


So how can you stay ahead of these criminals as you party in Nairobi clubs I have written the general rules on how to avoid your drink getting spiked. They are just some basic tips that should help you avoid such deadly spikes! 

10 rules of Avoiding Drink Spiking in Nairobi Clubs
You either have to nip the plan to spike your drink in the bud or you have to be very keen when partying alone.Here are 10 Rules to avoid spiking in Nairobi clubs 

Women Desire Sex When Drunk than Sober!



It is shocking but the truth be told; it is scientifically proven that women desire sex when they are drunk than when they are sober. Some guys will even argue that the strongest of all aphrodisiacs for women is alcohol; ‘it can work miracles’ they say! But HOW? This scientific fact sounds absurd, but why do women desire sex when drunk? Here are scientific facts about the ability of alcohol to make women ‘hornier’ than you ever thought.

When drinking alcohol your body undergoes various psychological changes in various stages that make sexual behavior to vary divergently!  Regardless of whether the woman is a stranger or not it is possible to have sex with a drunken woman and the next day she can barely recall your name or your face. The reason for this deviant sexual behavior boils down to this scientific explanation.

Increased Sexual Desire in women due to Hormonal Change



Actually when a woman is drinking alcohol they undergo the normal psychological change characterized by lack of

Shocking Relationship between Sex, Alcohol and Consequences



There is a high likelihood that a strangers drinking in Nairobi clubs might end up having sex in the same night! This is trend has popularly been termed as ‘Chips Funga’. Chips fungaing is something that happens from time to time in Nairobi in the recent past. Have you ever wondered about the role played by alcohol in this ‘chips fungaing’?
May be is time you read some interesting facts about the relationship between sex and alcohol. Sex and alcohol are certainly bed fellows with women being the most affected by having an increase sexual urge when drunk. Some few surveys and research suggest that women enjoy sex when they are drunk than sober. You may want to read: 

Scientific Fact: Read Why Women Enjoy Sex When Drunk than when they areSober.

Nothing Wrong with Drinking: God Wanted us to be Happy so he Made Beer! ‘

‘Oooolkoohol ‘as Joseph Kaguthi put it when we were growing up, is a drug that has depressant effect and can be harmful when taken irresponsibly. I don’t believe in demonizing alcohol since I personally believe without beer the world would not be interesting.This can be reaffirmed by a quote I recently saw on a T-Shirt ‘God Wanted us to be Happy so he Made Beer! ‘In its sarcasm this quote expresses the true spirit of responsible drinking.

 I cannot overemphasize how beer is important to the masses but advocate for responsible drinking. By understanding the role alcohol plays to our sexual behavior enhancement or depression we will understand the reasons why we have different sexual reactions when

How to Date a Woman with More Money


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Dating a woman with more money is not a tragedy as many men in Kenya think. It is possible to date a woman who makes more money without worrying about losing your masculinity. Our new constitution is empowering women and offering them equal opportunities to men in employment and government opportunities. This is the best thing that has happened in Kenya in the recent past, to end this severe gender inequality that has plagued our country for years.

Although this is a positive society move there are a recent ‘breed’ of women how have more money than men and are not getting dates. Kenyan men obviously shy away from any woman who seems to have financial prominence, since they certainly think these women are arrogant, un-datable and out-of-control. I want to think differently, since dating has nothing to do with her money!

Naturally a woman who loves you is inclined to being submissive to no matter how tough she looks or how much money she makes. Dating a woman with more money is no different than dating a broke woman. You just have to know where and when to do things right. The following 5 tips will make your dating easier if you are dating a woman who makes more money.

100 Stereotypes about Kenyan Women



(Guest Post)

This is part of Share Your Story Kenyan Bachelor Blog

I have been hearing different stereotypes about Kenya women from every other corner of the internet. I have decided to come up with this post that will list all the Stereotypes you have heard about Kenyan women. Note there is also a version here for Stereotype about Kenyan men. 

The following guest post reproduced from Mashahada Forum is an interesting summary of Kenyan Women Stereotypes 

KIKUYU WOMAN:
First Date: You get to buy her a real expensive dinner.
Second Date: You get to buy her and her girlfriends
a real expensive dinner.
Third Date: You get to pay her rent.
Tenth Date: She's pregnant by someone other than you!

LUO WOMAN:
First Date: You both get blind drunk and have sex.
Second Date: You both

100 Stereotypes about Kenyan Men



This is a guest Post via Share your Story Page
There are many stereotypes about Kenyan men out there. Here is a list of the most common. You can add on the comments to make them 100. Let us embrace our divieristy and learn to torelate one another. 
  1. Kikuyu Men love Money
  2. Kikuyu men are worst in Bed
  3. Luo Men drive the most expensive cars in Town
  4. Luo Men are proud
  5. Kikuyu men are hard working and accumulate wealth in their life time
  6. Kikuyu men love speaking Kikuyu language in Public
  7. Luyha Men are very good in bed 
  8. Luyha Men value circumcision
  9. Luyha Men Love Bull Fighting
  10. Kisii Men are very ill tempered

5 New Year Resolutions for Successful Dating in Men




Dating is one of the most interesting stages in life that brings mixed fortunes and adversities alike! This is the reason the world has so many broken hearts. This year 2013 let’s get started by creating a list of 10 important New Year Dating Resolutions. Although no one of us cares to keep these resolutions, they can be a good yardstick of measuring your dating achievements in the year 2013.

Most people face the New Year with so much optimism and hopes about starting new successful relationships. One of the most sought after resolution revolves about dating. You will hear someone say ‘My New Year resolution this year is to get a wife, a hubby, a spouse ….’

While this is the most sought after resolution a few of us care to make resolutions that will make us meet this dream mate. I have a list of New Year resolutions about dating that will make

Wishing you a Happy and Prosperous 2013


Its again that time of the year when we all have to forget the baggage of the past year and forge ahead by making new year resolutions, let me take this opportunity to wish you a happy and prosperous new year. 
I welcome you to read this column for the next one year. Thank you 
KB

Should Women be trusted to Dispose Condoms?



I previously wrote an article about 3 things that Kenyans don’t like wearing and one of them was condoms! While this is one of the best ways to get protection from Sexually transmitted diseases, there are many myths that revolve around condom use that we should demystify here. One of such myths is whether a girl can be trusted to dispose condoms! 

I overheard one of my notorious friends saying that he would never trust a girl to dispose condoms after sex. Initially thought this was ridiculous and whether the man or the woman disposed the condom was inconsequential but his argument was very intriguing! After listening to this argument I thought this guy was either too paranoid or sick! What do you think?

He argued that there was a possibility of foul play if you allowed a woman to dispose condoms, while this sounds pervert like. You must be very

3 Things Kenyans won’t Wear Condoms First!



It’s been a while since I got a chance to write a blog thanks to many generous people who have made my holiday a great success story! I hope you are also having a wonderful festive period and have managed to travel to ocha safely for those of us who must go to ocha this time of the year. When traveling a few days ago I could not help thinking about Kenyans and the risks they take! I think Kenyans are some of the highest risk takers in living in the world today! 

We watch so many ads advocating for change of behavior in Kenya but very few reliable researches are done to determine whether the efforts work. We spend millions of shillings on social behavior change but we are not keen to see how effective the campaigns have been on our society. In my research I have realized Kenyans are notorious for not wearing three things that put their life to potential risk.
The following are the three things Kenyans are hesitant to wear:

The Advice: ‘Utaacha Mshamba Uoe Malaya! ‘Helped Me!

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A while ago I came across a brawl in down town Nairobi involving a smartly dressed man and a ‘Mukorino’ woman. The scuffle lasted for a few minutes and seemed to be some love gone sour. It was not until that some plain clothed officers swung into action to restrain this furious woman that I watched the man take into heels and disappear into the crowd! 

The crowd laughed as though this was an extra ordinary occurrence in the streets of Nairobi,  but what lingers in my mind to this day, are words that woman uttered when she was led away by the police  ‘ Umeacha Mshamba uoe Malaya ‘ (You Leave a Naรฏve Wife for a Whore !) As I listened people gathered there talking about the cause of this scuffle, I realized this man had moved to town leaving his wife in their matrimonial village and had always avoided her former wife since he was now having a ‘Gashugwa’


Days later someone else mentioned to me the same thing; how you can aacha mshamba and oa Malaya! In this context I

How to tell if she is Worth a Relationship


Someone last week shared his painful memory of love gone sour and I would not help wonder why men stick around to women who will obviously disappoint them. If you see the warning signs that she is likely to disappoint you, there is not point of giving yourself some false hopes…just take the high road and never look back. For the sake of this disappointed friend and others out there, I have struggled to come up with a list I would call the tell tale signs that this girl will disappoint you.

Whether you meet in the bar, church , fitness club, school or in a bus stop, virtually all the women react the same way to attraction and you can easily tell if she is interested or not. Never force things ….be an ALPHA! If you are warming up to this chic and things seems to be going in the right

10 Lessons Celebs and Politicians Should Learn from ‘Caroline Mutoko Madeness ‘

It’s barely a few days since the social media beef between Carol Mutoko and some aggrieved ‘Kenyan Youths’ started. I have been reading some comments posted on the page lately and I would not help bursting in laughter. So I would like to let our Celebs and Politicians learn a few lessons here about social media and avoiding negative publicity from social media ‘s viral power

Most Important Lesson : There is a Serious Generation Gap Between Kenyan Leaders (the so called Vijana) and Kenyan Youths 

There exist a serious generation gap between our leaders who want to call themselves Vijana and the real Vijana. This generation gap calls for tolerance when dealing with these youths if you are a leader or a public figure. You should be willing to come down from the ivory tower you live in; to the humble mindset of these young fellows. Strike a compromise; don’t haul insults on someone because they made a suggestion about something silly. You should be willing to bridge this generational gap for you to survive in the realms of power, fame and popularity among Kenyan youths.

     # 1 Respect Earns you More Respect
I was told time and again by my teacher that I should learn to respect my elders and that stuck in my mind to this very day. What he failed to tell me; was if I became a King I should also respect my subjects. Some time in life we find ourselves in positions that we have subjects. Even in your own house you have a

Feminism is Slowly Killing Marriages in Kenya!



There is a sharp increase in the number of marriages that are hitting the rocks every other day. A close look at what could be the reason why marriage institution have become vulnerable to failure is the increase in what I call ‘unjustified feminism‘. Kenyan society is one that characterized by explosiveness in pursuit of rights and power. 

This could be the reason why in the last two decades women have been over sensitized about their marital rights (haki yetu) resulting in an ‘only women agenda ‘driven society. 



 Talk of men being battered, denied sex, denied right of children visitation, extortion and all manner of bad things happening silently to men in the name of ‘women rights’  In the past one year we have seen not less than three major cases of men who have been seriously battered hospitalized. Several other men have been left by their spouses and denied the right to

Sunday Inspiration : Psalms 23 Sheng Version


Its Sunday again and I hope you had a nice week. I received this Verse from a friend and I would like to share it as our Sunday inspiration: 
Psalm 23 (sheng version)
Sir God ni Mtu nguyas,
Sitahustle na sitabeat,
Yee hunilead kwa mawaba zime relax,
Na anabambisha roho ya myn,
Hunichapia manjia za para juu ya jina yake,
Hata nikipitia machuom ngori za kuukata,
Manze sita tense,
Juu ako na mimi mbaiya!
Kiboko yake ya uzito inanipea syk kwa lyf.
Huniangushia bash ya nguvu mbele ya

Why I Gave Up Dating Short Women !

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Lately I have had girls fuss around about how they are looking for tall guys yet most of them fall below 4 ft in height. One of my ladies colleagues even told me that she would forgive a guy on anything else so long as he is tall. Note I mean physical height (not elsewhere) 


 This sounds ridiculous since by evolution a large percentage of men have gradually reduced in height to below 6 ft.  I also made a crazy observation that most of this women demanding tall ..blah ..blah blah ...are serious victims of Short Woman Syndrome. 

 When I decided to write about my experience with dating short women I wanted to write something solid. I did a quick research on Tinker Bell Syndrome that is synonymous with Short Girl/ Woman Syndrome. I was amused by some things I read. I began by the definition of Short Woman Syndrome and this is what I found out from urban dictionary...

This Story Changed My Style of Approaching Women for Dating

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‘And she claims she was only with me for the currency.  You cut me deep, bitch, cut me like surgery and I was too proud to admit that it was hurting me I'd never do that to you, at least purposely…..’  
These are lines borrowed from Kanye West in the song Bitter Sweet. … This story will reflect on how you can get wasted chasing wind, a game that many young Nairobi women have mastered...BEWARE!

Denial
 Ask any Kenyan guy about what happened to their relationship when its broken the will either reply ‘ Nilimdump …sikuwa serious…..only a few guys will say…’nilikuwa wasted… we are often very proud of admitting failure even in our own eyes. ……when you are alone in your truest self you count your losses …

So today I want you to trim your ego for the next 5 minutes and read this story it might make a little difference the way it did to me…

The Most Common Pitfalls for Men Getting Married In Kenya !

‘Kenyans invest in shoes and beer and don’t want to invest in their health…’ Professor Anyang Nyong was quoted some while back.  I listened to this comment from the public health minister realized this truism could only make sense to those who cared to think about what he meant.
For a moment if you think of getting married soon you need to be critical and embrace reality instead of living in Mexican soap operas idiocy. I have taken time to research how young men are getting wasted by the pursuit of a DREAM WEDDING DAY some going to the extent of borrowing from financial institutions to just make a show.

 The problem starts with the local airwaves that are buzzing with

Sunday Inspiration : How to Stop Worrying


In the recent times so many bad things (Alshabab attacks, police killings, accidents) happen around us and we worry about bad things that can happen to us. Its human nature to worry but the best way to live a life free of worries is using the technique I call ' Worst case Scenario ...' 

You should always ask your self ...What is the worst case possible to happen...then evaluate the options you have and soon you will begin to realize there are more options to the problem at hand than worry about it.  As a young man living in a country marred by corruption, favoritism, tribalism, nepotism ....and the other vices, trying to cultivate a positive mindset may be had to come by especially when you are jobless, heartbroken, damn broke and your dreams getting broken by the hour....

Changing the way you look at things and giving problems a dose of optimism makes you

Change in Kenya Begins with you where you are ….


At this moment Kenya is a bubble of enthusiasm as we tirelessly chant and talk at each other. We seem to have lost our sanity as we fight for our political camps as we wait for next year elections. I am not a prophet of doom but with this mentality Kenyans have embraced for generations, we really need a miracle for change to be felt not even seen.

Unlike other people argue that the constitution has granted us the change we needed, I think we are still far from the real change. I know humans by nature are conservative, but if we truly yearn for change in this country we need to learn how to make sacrifices. Unless we learn, we will remain in this circus of dancing to the song our tribal chiefs sing.

It baffles me how our leaders take us for a ride …..We need to embrace a mindset that allows change to thrive and the real change begins with you wherever you are….

Top 10 Toughest Jobs in Kenya

Toughest Jobs In Kenya
In the past few days our nation has been engulfed by immense grief resulting from the loss of 46 police officers to bandits in Suguta Valley. What has followed is an endless blame game that is not only unnecessary but shocking! My concern is the fact that some of these policemen were rookies who had just left college the other day. I sympathize with these young men.

I am in particular concern that the police were not only ill equipped but also inexperience to fight bandits in that terrain. Something should be done to avert such deaths of young officers. I salute these gallant officers since they selflessly live everyday to make us safe. We cannot ask for more …..

Some careers in Kenya make up some of the toughest jobs in the world due to risks that are associated with this kind of jobs. I have come up with a list of ten jobs that I regard as the toughest jobs in Kenya. Some of the factors that make the toughest jobs in Kenya to be tougher are:

Poor Remuneration
Inadequate Equipment
Tough Working Environment
Inadequate training
Inexperience to new working environment 

Top Ten Toughest Jobs in Kenya
# 1 Kenya Defence Forces


Kenya Defence forces are indeed one of the toughest jobs in the country. They are mandated to protect the country sovereignty and ensure they eliminate national threats. This is tall order and they have made us proud in their recent incursion in Somalia. 

# 2 Kenya Police

Joining Kenya police is as tough as the job, the young men who succeed to join Kenya police are soon converted to tough officers who are ready to combat crime,

Why Success Only Comes to Those Who Leave their Mother’s Quarters Early in Life!




I often get disturbed by the fact that most young men in the recent times want to bask in the glory of their parents wasting away the most productive time in their lifetime. Growing up in the village presented those of us who grew up there with serious challenges, which we had to overcome to at least come close to being successful in life.

I once heard a story that in the past, if you came of age and your parents thought you could take care of yourself as a man, they urged you to go out there and look for something to do to make money. To some extent the father could destroy your ‘ Thingira ‘( young man’ s crib ) so that you could no longer be accepted there, for you to learn how to hustle.

If we carried out a survey we would see that most successful young hustlers in this city came from all other places to Nairobi and they hardly knew any other place other than TEA ROOM…. Machakos Country Bus …Mololine… KaKa ….and all those funny places. They all had one thing in common they wanted to make a difference.

Making the difference in life as a young man comes by nurturing

The Most Incredible Sex Story as told by a Herbalist


Nothing beats a man’s ego than premature ejaculation and or erectile dysfunction. A while ago while patrolling the streets of Nakuru I came across this herbalist whose sales pitch made me realize how gullible young men can become. 

 The sales pitch also made me realize we do not give our best to make ends meet.....(how many of us would craft such stories to just make $$$ ) 

We have all seen these herbalists who proclaim they sell ancient herbs that will make you do this or that….I always pass by such people and rarely give them audience. 

 For this particular herbalist I was curiously attracted by his ability to choose and use the right words, the most interesting fact being his funny stories.

When Men CRY, It leaves nothing to be Desired! Why Obama Cried Yesterday !



It’s a common perception that men should not cry since it’s seen as a sign of masculine weakness. I think crying or not crying can never be use as a yardstick to measure the strength of a man. Crying is personal and does not make you less a man but crying for votes like our politicians do leave less to be desired!

After watching the video of Obama emotional speech and watching the president of the most powerful state sob, I realized sometimes men can be forced by circumstance to cry!

When Men Should Cry!
I know most men in their boyhood they cried one, two or several times but for different reasons. One of the most common things