Dating a
woman with more money is not a tragedy as many men in Kenya think. It is
possible to date a woman who makes more money without worrying about losing
your masculinity. Our new constitution is empowering women and offering them
equal opportunities to men in employment and government opportunities. This is
the best thing that has happened in Kenya in the recent past, to end this
severe gender inequality that has plagued our country for years.
Although
this is a positive society move there are a recent ‘breed’ of women how have
more money than men and are not getting dates. Kenyan men obviously shy away
from any woman who seems to have financial prominence, since they certainly
think these women are arrogant, un-datable and out-of-control. I want to think differently,
since dating has nothing to do with her money!
Naturally a
woman who loves you is inclined to being submissive to no matter how tough she
looks or how much money she makes. Dating a woman with more money is no different
than dating a broke woman. You just have to know where and when to do things
right. The following 5 tips will make your dating easier if you are dating a
woman who makes more money.
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# 1 Never
be intimidated by her Earning More Money
This is
easier said than done, but if you show any signs of intimidation by her money,
dude you are gone. Just assume you are in control and be in control of
everything. Remember your God given ability to lead and use this to remain in
control.
# 2 Never Borrow
her Money
Borrowing
her money will make you a vulnerable debtor soon you will turn to a defaulter and
the relation will grow sour. You should ensure you make your own money and not
relay on her to give you money to buy your stuff. Let her money stay away from
your hands. If you keep this rule, she will begin respecting you as a man. |
A real man
character is a serious sense of thoughtfulness blended with some slight stubbornness.
A woman who makes more money than you will want you to leave your humble career
for her to do things for you. Never fall into this career. Let her learn to
appreciate your career as something that you can’t do without. If she does not
appreciate it when has to get used to it. Period!
#4 Never Stop
Providing for her and Family because she makes more money
Many men who
date women who make more money they fall into the trap of failing to provide
for her thinking she will take it easy. Just provide to your ability and let
her complement you for providing. It will make you more a man and you will feel
you have contributed your role in the relationship. You will also notice that women are inclined
to be provided no matter how rich they become. This is why many women always
look for men who are doing better than them.
#5 Show her it’s not
all About Money
I once saw a reply to this question in a forum ‘What do you if she is making money than you' One of the replies read : ‘My woman
makes more Money than me? Great! She can buy the condoms and lube then.’
If she is
making more money than you adopt an attitude than your relationship has nothing to
do with her money, it’s about you and her being happy. If you have such an
attitude you will successfully date a woman with more money without any
worries.
Good Luck with
Dating Women with More Money.
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