When No strings Attached is the Only Option

Nothing beats a man hands down, than a futile chase of a mate who will neither give in, to his yielding demands nor show him total rejection. Its better a girl you are falling rejects you from the beginning than keeping you there dangling with your emotions, while she has absolutely no intent of dating you. In the recent past there are several people who are crying foul when faced with such a situation. Most girls have mastered the art of playing hard to get but some go over board and will drive men crazy who are looking for serious relationships. Have you seen young men going out of their way to impress their purported GFs, only to get a series of disappointments? This can be summarized by an old axiom ‘Nothing hurts, than loving someone who will not love you back’ If you have been in such a situation I have a solution for you. This solution is based on an attitude that has been seen to work miracles for those who dare nurture it.

Men are disadvantaged in this dating game, since women call the shot, when it comes to choice of their mate. This is a natural fact and you cannot fight nature but adopt! There are a number of things that you can do, to up your game, reduce your rejection rate and improve your dating esteem immensely. These are the few important things that will help you get

Why Men would rather marry a ‘Whore’ than Conservative Girl

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Nothing confuses a man than the choice of a mate who will be his life time partner, the mother of his kids and his first lady. While this confusion reigns, majority of men getting married are torn between making choices on the best partner out of the girls they have been dating. This is not strange since many men will have at least two girls to compare in their final moment before they can decide on where they will settle. In this case there are a number of factors that come to play when men are selecting spouses. 

 

One of the most important factor than men look for is the ability of the woman they are marrying to satisfy them sexually. Many men can never compromise on this one explaining why many men pressurize their partner by persistence advances to ensure they are making the right decision on mate selection.  Nothing can be as deceitful as a man who marries a woman who cannot satisfy his sexual drive. In most cases this man may end up cheating. So this brings up, this question; ‘Should you marry a ‘whore’ or the conservative girl?

·         Marrying a Girl from Ocha (Muchatha)

One of my friends argues that the best way to get married and live happily thereafter, is to get a girl from your village, bring her to

DO YOU KNOW: You Might Be Infected with Chlamydia and Have No IDEA!

If you have not heard about Chlamydia infection before, this post will enlighten you on all that you need to know about Chlamydia infection and help you deal with it. You might want to read this post carefully since you might be infected with Chlamydia and living with it unknowingly! Shocking as it sounds; Chlamydia is one of the common sexually transmitted diseases that might go unnoticed and easily transmitted to sexual partners.

It is possible to get this infection from an infected woman since there is a high chance of about 75% infection from women while men its barely 50%. You might probably be noticing unusual discomforts and slight pain in your groin recently, if you have had such an experience it might be important you know more about Chlamydia infection in men and seek treatment immediately! 

What is Chlamydia and what are the Signs of Infection in Men?

Chlamydia is a bacterial infection that is not easily noticed in

History of Women Sex Toys: How the First Vibrator was Made

 Innovative Medical Technology

It’s amazing how innovative technology can develop to be used for diverse purposes. One such medical invention that is today used by millions of women round the world is the vibrator. It was in the early 18^th century that doctors devised a device for treating female hysteria by manipulative pelvic massage. This device was initially made for medical purpose and the first one was a steam powered devices. 

The inventor was an American Physician called George Taylor and he named it manipulator. Initially meant for helping doctors with strained wrists’ get relief, it was further developed by Joseph Granville and patented as an electromechanical vibrator.

·         Vibrator Becomes Personal

It was not until 1902 that the device was available for retail when an American company made and

Should Vibrators be sold on Prescription Only In Kenya?

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Not until recently did I know that vibrators can be easily acquired in the street of Nairobi. I thought it was just fascination by people in town, who say that Sex toys are the ‘new arrival’. I still can ‘t believe if men toys can make any good business in Kenya but am tempted to think that vibrators are possibly making good business. I am also surprised to see how Kenyans have become sexually liberated from our stringent African cultural practices with toys retailing for as low as 500 bob in online stores in Kenya. There are a few sites that are doing this business and offering to deliver the toys within CBD.

 This begs the question, are people interested in buying them?  Obviously there is no market that can be successful without sustainable demand and supply. If there is supply there is certainly someone willing and ready to buy. Many Kenyans would love to remain silent on this kind of topic preferring to discuss it in the confines of their bedrooms. I would like to examine the truth about the history of vibrators, legal and ethical debates about the use and sale of vibrators round the world.  

 For What Purpose were Vibrators initially made?

Vibrator was a medical invention that was intended to manage or treat

Do you believe Conspiracy Theory about Origin of HIV ?

HIV/AIDS is certainly one of the most deadly diseases that are thought to have been invented as a biological weapon in the US laboratories. The theory purports that the US foreign policy was concern in controlling the population of black people and homosexuals. 

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Whether this theory is true or not , there are some shocking facts about this theory that have formed the basis of serious debate on whether or not HIV was intended to be a biological weapon directed towards black people.

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In this post I would like to explain the conspiracy theory of history of HIV and let you be the judge on whether this theory stands the test of truth.

The Conspiracy Theory about the Origin of HIV /AIDS

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    Manufacture of HIV in US Labs

Although the Scientists round the world have reached a consensus about the origin of AIDs to be in Africa in the early 1930’s, the conspiracy theory sharply

Online Dating in Nairobi Review : Sugar Daddy Dating Site in Kenya

Seeking Arrangement Dating Site Kenya

Online dating in Nairobi is not only challenging but confusing since very few people can trust people who they meet online. Due to lack of dating sites that can be trusted many dating sites come and go but a few dating sites have been persistent.

 If you have been following dating online in Kenya you will realize there is a growing trend of upcoming dating sites for Kenyans. I would like to begin

Beware Commonly used Drugs for Spiking Drinks in Clubs

Many revelers in Nairobi don’t even know what mchele means, they have only heard ‘ Kuwekewa Mchele’ which means your drink getting spiked. I would like to unearth this mystery of drugs used to spike drinks, the so commonly called Mchele. They resemble a grain of rice in size and this is the reason zinaitwa MCHELE.

This is a crime that has be in the rise with men being the most common target, after they are spiked they are frisked and dumped in funny places. 
Don’t be a victim learn from other people experience and read the tips on :

HOW TO AVOID GETTING SPIKED.

Spiking and how it’s done

Spiking involves intake of huge amount of alcoholic beverage that may either intoxicated with other chemicals or just normal alcohol in large amounts. I have heard stories of people spiked with changaa’ added to their beer(funny but true!). Don’t just think spiking only involves

How to Avoid your Drink Getting Spiked in Nairobi Clubs

For one reason or another we have constantly had of cases of friends or relatives whose drinks get spiked or they are druged by criminals in Nairobi Clubs. This scene in the picture below is very common in Nairobi.

So how can you stay ahead of these criminals as you party in Nairobi clubs I have written the general rules on how to avoid your drink getting spiked. They are just some basic tips that should help you avoid such deadly spikes! 

10 rules of Avoiding Drink Spiking in Nairobi Clubs

You either have to nip the plan to spike your drink in the bud or you have to be very keen when partying alone.Here are 10 Rules to avoid spiking in Nairobi clubs 

Women Desire Sex When Drunk than Sober!

It is shocking but the truth be told; it is scientifically proven that women desire sex when they are drunk than when they are sober. Some guys will even argue that the strongest of all aphrodisiacs for women is alcohol; ‘it can work miracles’ they say! But HOW? This scientific fact sounds absurd, but why do women desire sex when drunk? Here are scientific facts about the ability of alcohol to make women ‘hornier’ than you ever thought.

When drinking alcohol your body undergoes various psychological changes in various stages that make sexual behavior to vary divergently!  Regardless of whether the woman is a stranger or not it is possible to have sex with a drunken woman and the next day she can barely recall your name or your face. The reason for this deviant sexual behavior boils down to this scientific explanation.

Increased Sexual Desire in women due to Hormonal Change

Actually when a woman is drinking alcohol they undergo the normal psychological change characterized by lack of

Shocking Relationship between Sex, Alcohol and Consequences

There is a high likelihood that a strangers drinking in Nairobi clubs might end up having sex in the same night! This is trend has popularly been termed as ‘Chips Funga’. Chips fungaing is something that happens from time to time in Nairobi in the recent past. Have you ever wondered about the role played by alcohol in this ‘chips fungaing’?

May be is time you read some interesting facts about the relationship between sex and alcohol. Sex and alcohol are certainly bed fellows with women being the most affected by having an increase sexual urge when drunk. Some few surveys and research suggest that women enjoy sex when they are drunk than sober. You may want to read: 

Scientific Fact: Read Why Women Enjoy Sex When Drunk than when they areSober.

Nothing Wrong with Drinking: God Wanted us to be Happy so he Made Beer! ‘

‘Oooolkoohol ‘as Joseph Kaguthi put it when we were growing up, is a drug that has depressant effect and can be harmful when taken irresponsibly. I don’t believe in demonizing alcohol since I personally believe without beer the world would not be interesting.This can be reaffirmed by a quote I recently saw on a T-Shirt ‘God Wanted us to be Happy so he Made Beer! ‘In its sarcasm this quote expresses the true spirit of responsible drinking.

 I cannot overemphasize how beer is important to the masses but advocate for responsible drinking. By understanding the role alcohol plays to our sexual behavior enhancement or depression we will understand the reasons why we have different sexual reactions when

How to Date a Woman with More Money

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Dating a woman with more money is not a tragedy as many men in Kenya think. It is possible to date a woman who makes more money without worrying about losing your masculinity. Our new constitution is empowering women and offering them equal opportunities to men in employment and government opportunities. This is the best thing that has happened in Kenya in the recent past, to end this severe gender inequality that has plagued our country for years.

Although this is a positive society move there are a recent ‘breed’ of women how have more money than men and are not getting dates. Kenyan men obviously shy away from any woman who seems to have financial prominence, since they certainly think these women are arrogant, un-datable and out-of-control. I want to think differently, since dating has nothing to do with her money!

Naturally a woman who loves you is inclined to being submissive to no matter how tough she looks or how much money she makes. Dating a woman with more money is no different than dating a broke woman. You just have to know where and when to do things right. The following 5 tips will make your dating easier if you are dating a woman who makes more money.

100 Stereotypes about Kenyan Women

(Guest Post)

This is part of Share Your Story Kenyan Bachelor Blog

I have been hearing different stereotypes about Kenya women from every other corner of the internet. I have decided to come up with this post that will list all the Stereotypes you have heard about Kenyan women. Note there is also a version here for Stereotype about Kenyan men. 

The following guest post reproduced from Mashahada Forum is an interesting summary of Kenyan Women Stereotypes 

KIKUYU WOMAN:
First Date: You get to buy her a real expensive dinner.
Second Date: You get to buy her and her girlfriends
a real expensive dinner.
Third Date: You get to pay her rent.
Tenth Date: She's pregnant by someone other than you!

LUO WOMAN:
First Date: You both get blind drunk and have sex.
Second Date: You both

100 Stereotypes about Kenyan Men

This is a guest Post via Share your Story Page

There are many stereotypes about Kenyan men out there. Here is a list of the most common. You can add on the comments to make them 100. Let us embrace our divieristy and learn to torelate one another. 

1. Kikuyu Men love Money
2. Kikuyu men are worst in Bed
3. Luo Men drive the most expensive cars in Town
4. Luo Men are proud
5. Kikuyu men are hard working and accumulate wealth in their life time
6. Kikuyu men love speaking Kikuyu language in Public
7. Luyha Men are very good in bed 
8. Luyha Men value circumcision
9. Luyha Men Love Bull Fighting
10. Kisii Men are very ill tempered

5 New Year Resolutions for Successful Dating in Men

Dating is one of the most interesting stages in life that brings mixed fortunes and adversities alike! This is the reason the world has so many broken hearts. This year 2013 let’s get started by creating a list of 10 important New Year Dating Resolutions. Although no one of us cares to keep these resolutions, they can be a good yardstick of measuring your dating achievements in the year 2013.

Most people face the New Year with so much optimism and hopes about starting new successful relationships. One of the most sought after resolution revolves about dating. You will hear someone say ‘My New Year resolution this year is to get a wife, a hubby, a spouse ….’

While this is the most sought after resolution a few of us care to make resolutions that will make us meet this dream mate. I have a list of New Year resolutions about dating that will make

Wishing you a Happy and Prosperous 2013

Its again that time of the year when we all have to forget the baggage of the past year and forge ahead by making new year resolutions, let me take this opportunity to wish you a happy and prosperous new year. 

I welcome you to read this column for the next one year. Thank you 

KB