If you read the 10 types ofhusbands you should by now know where you fall as a husband or the husband you
are going to be when you get married. As a husband there are many challenges
you can get from time to time in your married. One such challenge is the shift
of attention from you to your child when your wife delivers a baby. This
article will highlight some reasons why husbands need attention.
Husbands Need Attention too
Being able to give birth is such
a wonderful blessing that should never be taken for granted. We should be
thankful to the almighty because some couples for one reason or another, burn
the midnight oil unsuccessfully trying to make a baby.
Disappointingly, when some women get babies, they completely
forget about their husbands. Wait a minute, don’t get me wrong, a baby deserves
every attention it can get from its mum, but when her attention just revolves
around the baby rather obsessively then we are going to have a problem.
Take it from me, when a man realizes that since the
baby’s arrival, his entire wife’s attention has shifted from him, he would
naturally feel neglected.
Audacity
More irritating is when a loving and caring husband
takes such a wife to a far-flung holiday destination in an effort to rejuvenate
their love life, only for the insensitive wife to keep spoiling the mood by
unnecessarily worrying talking about the baby.
Never mind the baby — who is no longer breast-fed —
would have been left under the care of someone more responsible and
experienced: Grandma. And when such a man looks for another woman for
undivided attention, or hits the beer bottle for consolation, the same wife
will have the audacity to complain.
Thing is, we men love attention. If you didn’t know,
now you know. So divide the time and attention. If you have brains, throw the
baby out of the matrimonial bed after a while.
No man wants a woman who slaps his hands away and
reminds him to ‘stop ‘disturbing’ lest he wakes up the baby’ each time he tries
to reach for what he was legitimately bequeathed for life before elders and a
religious leader.
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