If She Brings the Backon Home Will You Cook ?

Interesting how empowerment of women in Kenya is met with a lot of skepticism, personally I don't have a problem with women empowerment...but most Kenyan men grapple with fear that their  wives would ruin the marriage if they are economically empowered. I read this interesting article from the

New Research Suggests: Women 'Dress Code' tells If they Want 'Sex'

If you’re wondering whether a woman is on the lookout for love then the answer may lie in what she is wearing. A growing body of research has revealed that women give off signals about the inner workings of their body by the way they dress - and red, quite simply, means ‘I WANT SEX’. Scientists have discovered that women tend to wear red or pink when they are ovulating – the time of the month that they are at their most fertile – in a bid to attract a mate. 

Is She in Red ?

It isn’t fully understood why red could attract a mate but there are several hypotheses. Some say it has to do with the flushing of the face following sex, following the arguement that men’s animal brains are awakened when confronted with 'some deep primal force', according to a report by Medical Daily . 

The 10 Important Qualities that Define if SHE is ‘Wife Material ‘!

Lately my Facebook inbox is swarmed with dating questions that I never thought would ever come up the time I started writing this blog. Apparently there are men out there, who are at the blink of making this life time decision but they simply can’t choose the right girl!  There are many reasons for not settling down on one girl but top on the list of all these questions is ‘How can you know she is a wife material?’

 I want to demystify this wife material conception but before I delve deep into this debate, I would like to give a disclaimer that; I am neither a relationship counselor, a professional dating consultant or even a pastor but an independent social observer, writer and a critical thinker, who is not afraid to call a spade a spade not a big spoon. Having said this, it has taken me a lot of research to ultimately create these 10 important qualities that can be a basis of defining what a wife material kind of a girl should be like.

Article of the Week: The Great Deception That Is Romantic ‘Love’

I came across this interesting article and would like to share it here with my readers, I hope you find it interesting and join this debate : 

Whenever any of my buddies tells me he’s fallen in ‘love’, I always burst out laughing and take a deep gulp of my Tusker.

Romantic love is nothing more than western creation meant to fuel consumerism, individualism and otherwise deludes people into thinking that a person can love the other unconditionally.

If pure love exists, why doesn’t Njeri the CEO of XYZ ltd fall in love and MARRY Kamau, the mkokoteni dude?

Love is simply a way of

6 Best Places to Meet Good Women in Nairobi for Dating

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If you are wondering where you can meet a good date in Nairobi, you may want to read these tips of the best places to meet Women in Nairobi for dating. Before you review these places, you probably missed out on the most read post in the previous week ‘ Obvious reasons why you get rejected on the first date’ You may want to begin by reading this post for you to be confident as you make your next move towards meeting a woman of your dreams in Nairobi.

The following are the best places to meet women in Nairobi for dating:

6 Hurtful Reasons She Won’t Pick your Calls

Considering you have been dating or trying to date a certain girl but she keeps refusing to pick your calls, its time you went back to the drawing board and did some evaluation. This post will expose to you some of the most common or known reasons that girls detest from picking some ‘guys’ calls. This post should just be an eye opener and should guide you on either to exit the relationship you are currently in or to turn things around.

Girls will not pick calls for the following reasons:

8 Genuine or Fake EXCUSES She does NOT Pick your Calls !

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Dating can be one of the most challenging yet rewarding experiences in your life. While dating should be a mutual engagement, most cases men find themselves giving too much case with little or no catch. If you ever come to such a point, you should consider auditing your action vis-à-vis your partner reactions to just be certain if your relationship is headed somewhere. Dating Nairobi women can be an uphill task especially when you don’t have a clear cut strategy on what you are looking for in a woman. Whether you meet in a club, dating site or in the streets, it does not matter all women respond the same way when it comes to one thing, picking your calls.

 In this era of women empowerment where you find one woman is dating several men, you should be smart if you want to pick out these petty lies. You don’t have to invest in a lie detectors or spouse spy software just be smart. You may read the top 6 reasons she won’t pick your calls as a way of getting started with this problem, honestly you could be the problem!

Many men are worried when they have partners or girl friends that will not pick their calls or even text back. While it obvious that she might not be interested in you, it is not always the case. Learn from these tips on how to analyze your situation and determine whether you are begin taken for a RIDE!

When she is not picking your calls she may have some of the following reasons

Interesting Scientific and Historical Facts about Human Sex with Animals

In the last two weeks Kenya social scene has been abuzz with amusement at the discovery of three girls having sex with dogs in Mombasa. While this is unheard of in Kenyan culture, there are many ways we may look at this issue without limiting our thinking to only social consequences. I want to give this bizarre incidence a scientific opinion to help us know more about sexual disorders. The best way to learn about sexual disorders is examining history and some well known scientific facts. In this post I will highlight some interesting facts about Zoophilia and the possible causes. 

Whether we can relate psychiatric disorder (paraphilia) to the incidence in Mombasa or not, there is serious mental problems that go unaddressed in our country, we need to appreciate that this girls may not only been under financial undue influence but as a matter of fact, they could possibly be suffering from

11 Obvious Reasons Women REJECT you at FIRST SIGHT

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Kenyan women are highly intelligent when it comes to spotting a man who wants to fake what he is not. The Number #1 dating Advice is ‘Always be yourself ….don’t try to fake your personality’. If you are having a first date anytime soon you should be aware that you will never get a second chance to make a first impression. The first impression is what matters, for you to earn a second date. I have watched the hyped up dating program tujuane and decided to write a few tips to help some guys out there style up. 

The ideas shared in this article are suggestion that will help you get to know how women think about you when you are on a date. It’s important you begin by learning the 10 reasons why women may constantly be rejecting you and you may not be aware. These are the most common mistakes men commit and they cost them a second date.

              #1 Bad Breath on a First Date - Bad breath is the most uncomfortable feeling your date will have to endure all the time you open your mouth. There are men who suffer from bad breath and they may not be aware. If you would like to know if you have bad breath this post: How to identify and eliminate bad breath may be a MUST READ. Bad breath is the most obvious reason that will get you rejected on your first date. 

Why Men would rather marry a ‘Whore’ than Conservative Girl

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Nothing confuses a man than the choice of a mate who will be his life time partner, the mother of his kids and his first lady. While this confusion reigns, majority of men getting married are torn between making choices on the best partner out of the girls they have been dating. This is not strange since many men will have at least two girls to compare in their final moment before they can decide on where they will settle. In this case there are a number of factors that come to play when men are selecting spouses. 

 

One of the most important factor than men look for is the ability of the woman they are marrying to satisfy them sexually. Many men can never compromise on this one explaining why many men pressurize their partner by persistence advances to ensure they are making the right decision on mate selection.  Nothing can be as deceitful as a man who marries a woman who cannot satisfy his sexual drive. In most cases this man may end up cheating. So this brings up, this question; ‘Should you marry a ‘whore’ or the conservative girl?

·         Marrying a Girl from Ocha (Muchatha)

One of my friends argues that the best way to get married and live happily thereafter, is to get a girl from your village, bring her to

History of Women Sex Toys: How the First Vibrator was Made

 Innovative Medical Technology

It’s amazing how innovative technology can develop to be used for diverse purposes. One such medical invention that is today used by millions of women round the world is the vibrator. It was in the early 18^th century that doctors devised a device for treating female hysteria by manipulative pelvic massage. This device was initially made for medical purpose and the first one was a steam powered devices. 

The inventor was an American Physician called George Taylor and he named it manipulator. Initially meant for helping doctors with strained wrists’ get relief, it was further developed by Joseph Granville and patented as an electromechanical vibrator.

·         Vibrator Becomes Personal

It was not until 1902 that the device was available for retail when an American company made and

Should Vibrators be sold on Prescription Only In Kenya?

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Not until recently did I know that vibrators can be easily acquired in the street of Nairobi. I thought it was just fascination by people in town, who say that Sex toys are the ‘new arrival’. I still can ‘t believe if men toys can make any good business in Kenya but am tempted to think that vibrators are possibly making good business. I am also surprised to see how Kenyans have become sexually liberated from our stringent African cultural practices with toys retailing for as low as 500 bob in online stores in Kenya. There are a few sites that are doing this business and offering to deliver the toys within CBD.

 This begs the question, are people interested in buying them?  Obviously there is no market that can be successful without sustainable demand and supply. If there is supply there is certainly someone willing and ready to buy. Many Kenyans would love to remain silent on this kind of topic preferring to discuss it in the confines of their bedrooms. I would like to examine the truth about the history of vibrators, legal and ethical debates about the use and sale of vibrators round the world.  

 For What Purpose were Vibrators initially made?

Vibrator was a medical invention that was intended to manage or treat

Women Desire Sex When Drunk than Sober!

It is shocking but the truth be told; it is scientifically proven that women desire sex when they are drunk than when they are sober. Some guys will even argue that the strongest of all aphrodisiacs for women is alcohol; ‘it can work miracles’ they say! But HOW? This scientific fact sounds absurd, but why do women desire sex when drunk? Here are scientific facts about the ability of alcohol to make women ‘hornier’ than you ever thought.

When drinking alcohol your body undergoes various psychological changes in various stages that make sexual behavior to vary divergently!  Regardless of whether the woman is a stranger or not it is possible to have sex with a drunken woman and the next day she can barely recall your name or your face. The reason for this deviant sexual behavior boils down to this scientific explanation.

Increased Sexual Desire in women due to Hormonal Change

Actually when a woman is drinking alcohol they undergo the normal psychological change characterized by lack of

100 Stereotypes about Kenyan Women

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This is part of Share Your Story Kenyan Bachelor Blog

I have been hearing different stereotypes about Kenya women from every other corner of the internet. I have decided to come up with this post that will list all the Stereotypes you have heard about Kenyan women. Note there is also a version here for Stereotype about Kenyan men. 

The following guest post reproduced from Mashahada Forum is an interesting summary of Kenyan Women Stereotypes 

KIKUYU WOMAN:
First Date: You get to buy her a real expensive dinner.
Second Date: You get to buy her and her girlfriends
a real expensive dinner.
Third Date: You get to pay her rent.
Tenth Date: She's pregnant by someone other than you!

LUO WOMAN:
First Date: You both get blind drunk and have sex.
Second Date: You both