How to Successfully Date an Older Woman in Kenya

Dating an older woman is not a norm in the Kenyan but there are young men who fancy dating older women. If you are contemplating dating older women you should read this article first. While dating older women seems to be perplexing, there are those older women who deserve a date. If you are going to successfully date an  older woman you should have the right guts and manners. In this post, I set out to research and write something interesting about dating older women successfully. I hope you pick up some tips on dating older women from this article. 

Questions to Answer before Dating an Older Woman

What is Age of the Woman?

It’s said time and again that age is just a number …you should choose to either ignore this statement or use it as your conviction for dating older women especially when the woman is way too older than you. You possibly remember the case of Mbugua and Wambui . In most cases the older the woman you are planning to date the bad the social perception will be about your choice. If you don’t worry about social perceptions and being ridiculed then you don’t have a problem dating a granny. It is advisable to date older women who

are within your generation reach for both of you to have compatibility.

Why Date this Older Woman?

This is a question that you should answer if you are serious about dating an older woman. Consider the pros and the cons of dating an older woman vis-à-vis a young woman. There are many young women out there; why do you settle for this old woman. If you have a solid answer to this question; you can make the right decision.

It’s advisable to never date an older woman for financial reasons, it has been cited most young men in developing countries would date an older woman for financial reasons.  Dating an older woman for financial support can be disastrous unless agreed upon by both partners from the start.

What are the Social Implications?  If you are dating an older woman and want to settle down for marriage with this woman; there are a number of social implications that may hinder your relationship. One of the most common problems is rejection of the partner by parents and relatives. If you can convince them she is right for you; there is no harm in dating an older woman.  I also mentioned something to do with age. Consider older is ‘relative ‘some older women will not sire children for you if they are above the menopause age, unless you are not looking forward to having a family with kids marrying an old woman above that age may be a good choice for you.

Are you ready to embrace the generation gap?

Obviously if you marry a woman who is 10 years older, there are certain things that will irritate you from time to time. You should develop a thick skin for this problems associated with generation gap for your relationship to survive. You should consider marrying this woman who is purported in Kenyan social scene as ‘analog’ only when you are sure she will also catch up with your ‘digital’ trends as you tolerate her ‘analogue naggings. ‘

Finally are you a Gentleman?

Older women like to be treated well and respected in their relationship. Having dated several other men older ladies have a refined taste for gentlemen who will treat them right and respect them. If you are into dating older won you have to hone your gentlemanliness to win the attention of that older lady.  

Good Luck Chap! 

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