Video of Week : Man in Limuru Accused of Having 'SEX' with a Cow

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Ni kitendo cha kushangaza.Mwanamume kufanya ngono na ng'ombe.Hili ndilo jambo lililoshuhudiwa hii leo katika kijiji kimoja huko Kiambaa baada ya jamaa anayefanya kazi na kampuni ya maji ya Kikuyu, kufumaniwa akifanya kitendo hicho kisicho cha kawaida na ngombe katika mojawapo ya boma la eneo hilo.

The 10 Important Qualities that Define if SHE is ‘Wife Material ‘!

Lately my Facebook inbox is swarmed with dating questions that I never thought would ever come up the time I started writing this blog. Apparently there are men out there, who are at the blink of making this life time decision but they simply can’t choose the right girl!  There are many reasons for not settling down on one girl but top on the list of all these questions is ‘How can you know she is a wife material?’

 I want to demystify this wife material conception but before I delve deep into this debate, I would like to give a disclaimer that; I am neither a relationship counselor, a professional dating consultant or even a pastor but an independent social observer, writer and a critical thinker, who is not afraid to call a spade a spade not a big spoon. Having said this, it has taken me a lot of research to ultimately create these 10 important qualities that can be a basis of defining what a wife material kind of a girl should be like.

How to Successfully Date an Older Woman in Kenya

Dating an older woman is not a norm in the Kenyan but there are young men who fancy dating older women. If you are contemplating dating older women you should read this article first. While dating older women seems to be perplexing, there are those older women who deserve a date. If you are going to successfully date an  older woman you should have the right guts and manners. In this post, I set out to research and write something interesting about dating older women successfully. I hope you pick up some tips on dating older women from this article. 

Questions to Answer before Dating an Older Woman

What is Age of the Woman?

It’s said time and again that age is just a number …you should choose to either ignore this statement or use it as your conviction for dating older women especially when the woman is way too older than you. You possibly remember the case of Mbugua and Wambui . In most cases the older the woman you are planning to date the bad the social perception will be about your choice. If you don’t worry about social perceptions and being ridiculed then you don’t have a problem dating a granny. It is advisable to date older women who

Kenyan Bachelor Living the High Life : Interesting article on Bachelorhood Lifestyle

They say the best times of one’s life are the college and bachelor years. College years for the obvious reasons; lots of activity, freedom, and access to nearly everything. You can get away with anything, including pulling off the sign post of a bar and grill from the roadside and hanging it from your hostel window. You grow up, make friends, get into fights, and learn the things that matter in life.

Bachelorhood is breaking-out time. Life takes shape as you shake off the carelessness of your college days and train your sights on money and the need to stabilise. While Alexander the Great went about trying to conquer the world, a young bachelor, since there is no more world to conquer and needs more time to conquer the office, will have to find an alternative. The reason is simple; a man ought to conquer some place... or something.

The natural place to direct his conquering energies is his cave, the place he lives and calls home, even if it is a bed-sitter on top of a crowded flat or a one-bedroom apartment. This is the place where he invites his friends for post-match banter, the place where he entertains his female friends, the place where his folks can find him for a weekend of village and family talk, the place where he can welcome his mother and father, the place where he rises every morning and goes to sleep every night.

Kitoto's this Week : Tit for Tat, If he Cheats on me I Cheat ! Is it a fair GAME?

Dear Kitoto,

We married six years ago. That very year, he started cheating on me. After delivering our first-born daughter, I decided to go back to my parents despite being pregnant with my second child. He tried to convince me to go back and I refused. He decided to come with his parents, who, due to the pregnancy, convinced me to go back.

To cut a long story short, he once took the other woman to his mother. Our pastor tried to resolve the issue to no avail. What bothers me is that despite being in a rocky marriage, I decline all other men who approach me.

My husband is now 50 and I am 30. Is the age difference the problem, bearing in mind that the other woman is older than me? Family planning did not work for me and as I write this email, I am carrying another pregnancy.

Article of the Week : African Men are Facing Extinction thanks to Western Culture by Karl Marx

The devastating consequences of attempting to westernize the Africans’ mental perspectives and ways of life continue to bite. Although I believe that we should not hesitate to steal progressive ideas from the white man- particularly in science and economics- I find it repelling whenever the African people attempt to adopt the western culture and delude themselves that it can work here in Africa

Take the emergence of this sissy, fragile, salon patronizing metro-sexual man for example. 

This man thinks it is cool to go for manicures, buying expensive ,feminine perfumes, crying at the slightest opportunity and even competing with women in the beauty department. It is not only totally gross but also idiotic as well. I am not saying that men should not be neat but that doesn’t mean carrying a mirror and staring at your face every 10 minutes.

This is the type of man that cannot fix a sink because he’ll get dirty, a man that will propose to a woman when kneeling down and weeping, a man that cannot drink directly from a tusker bottle because he prefers sipping his beer like it is some horrible poison, a man that cannot mown his lawn because his hands will get blisters, a man who can never own a sword in his bedroom because even

Relationship Problems: Coping with Women who suffer from Overactive Bladder

Adult bed wetting is one of the most challenging relationship problems that can lead to unstable relationships, domestic violence and gross abuse in a relationship. Adult bed

wetting is not so commonly reported in Kenya possibly due to stigma. 

This does not mean it does not occur frequently  ......Take for example this case of a woman who wets the bed and cannot remember anything about wetting the bed: 

Question: 

Guys help me out here, I took a chips funga to my keja yester night and had a lot of fun did all i could imagine of na later tukalala. Kuamka asubuhi nimepata dem amekojoa kwa kitanda, when I ask her anasema si yeye ati maybe ni vile she always sweats when sleeping. Walai hio harufu ni ya mkojo no doubt about that. Now lazima ni anike hio mattress outside kwa jua ndio ikauke. Sijui itakuwaje am still thinking.

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Adult Bet Wetting is a Serious Social Problem not Commonly Reported in Kenya

No doubt this is a serious problem that needs not only medical approach but also psychological counseling approach. These kind of cases of adults who wet their beds are

Prezzo and Joy Wanjohi the CHEATING STORY

Apparently, the King of bling Prezzo was officially divorced after he was accused of infidelity. 

Joy Wanjohi is the lady Prezzo was accused of cheating with as it was mentioned in court during the undefended divorce case. 

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Nashuku Msuss Mpya Wa Prezzo ~ Joy Wanjohi Ana Ukedi.  

Manze weka huyu manzi kwa darubini, sorora vile ame thela, Mguu ka sindano. Si huyu penchu ana ugua. Na btw mbona unafikiri yule mama wa prezzo wa kitambo alimsaree..huyu boiz ana mdudu.

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The beef between CMB Prezzo and Jaguar almost became a physical when the two musicians met face to face for the first time at Skylux Lounge in Westlands. It is alleged that Prezzo who arrived in old 3-Series BMW told his fans that the latest 7-Series edition that Jaguar has been driving belongs to his driver while Jaguar was

Kenya News : Prezzo now OFFICIALLY a Divorcee

The High Court in Nairobi has allowed a divorce case filed by his wife Daisy Jematia Kiplagat and ordered that the marriage be dissolved.

Daisy filed the case seeking divorce in May 2012 but Prezzo (Jackson Makini) did not defend it. High Court Judge Luka Kimaru granted Daisy’s application and ordered Prezzo to pay a monthly upkeep of Sh50,000 for the baby born in March 2009.

“The petitioner and the respondent have been separated since November 2011. For the above reasons, this court has no option but to annul the marriage,” said Justice Kimaru.

 Daisy accused Prezzo of committing adultery and physical abuse on her. The couple solemnised their marriage on December 2008 at Karen Country Lodge. But the couple have lived separately since November 2011.

“It is clear that indeed the marriage between the Petitioner (Daisy) and the respondent ( Prezzo) has irretrievably broken down,” said Judge Kimaru.

The judge said the instances of cruelty cited by Daisy are not conducive for the health of a successful marriage.

Daisy told the court in her evidence that Prezzo had committed adultery with various women and particularly a former model, Joy Wanjohi.

Prezzo had also been verbally abusive causing her mental stress and anxiety. He physically abused her and failed to abide by his financial responsibilities.

18 of the Best CHRISTIAN Dating Websites YOU OUGHT to Know

After writing the  list of 25 dating websites in Kenya someone suggested whether there is a good christian dating website in Kenya. After a thorough research I have come up with this list of the top international christian dating websites 

# 1: Christian Mingle Dating Site

# 2 Just Christian Dating  Dating Site

Video of the Week: Lesbians' Suspended from School

Now to yet another controversial story about homosexuality in the country. Six girls from a school in Murang'a have been suspended after they were allegedly found sharing a bed and having what the school called 'queer tendencies'. And get this -- they are now required to buy a double-decker bed as part of the punishment. 

How Kenya Health Minister STOP Audrey, Andrew Mbugua Sex Change Surgery in KNH

Her operation was scheduled for March 2009.  Audrey was already active within the transgender movement in Kenya and was working closely with transgender Kenya initiative that had been formed to address the needs of those silently dealing with GID.

“Somebody suggested that we should do a documentary on my operation and we needed permission to film in KNH. Zawadi Nyong’o, a consultant in the social justice movement, suggested she could get permission from her father, Prof Anyang Nyong’o who was Health minister to film in Kenyatta hospital.”

Says Audrey: “Apparently, the minister called the director of KNH and told him he was aware that a gender change operation was scheduled for the following day and advised him against allowing the operation to proceed. I arrived the following morning ready for my operation and my urologist informed me the operation had been cancelled.”

Opinion : Kenya’s MOST Beautiful Women and Handsome Men

Recently, Nation Media Group editor Charles Onyango-Obbo posted a tongue-in-cheek list on his Facebook page ranking what he considered the most beautiful African women and “handsomest” African men, as he put it.                       

Onyango-Obbo excluded women and men from his own native Uganda. But he also didn’t include Kenyans. However, in a lively debate, quite a few Kenyans pitched in, saying Kenya belonged firmly in the top rankings of African beauty.

So here is a shortened list of the top 6 African countries with the most beautiful women and    handsome men. William Odoyo Makora, responded with his own list of the most beautiful Kenyan women and handsome men. What do you think of Makora’s Kenyan rankings?

10 Best Dating DEALS in Nairobi

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If you are planning a date in a near future and you are not so good in cooking, there are many food dating deals in Nairobi that will make your date memorable. 

It’s no secret, if you want to win a prospective date’s heart; you got to know how to treat her right. Food and drinks comes first when you are thinking of the best date idea. It’s said ‘the way to a man’s heart is through the stomach, but the opposite is also TRUE!’

Most Nairobi dating deals revolve around great places you can visit in Nairobi and out of Nairobi and the best affordable eating deals. Getting a way you can enjoy a sumptuous that will not cost a fortune is one of the best dating idea.

Before we delve deeper to different Nairobi dating deals, here are some important tips about successful dating: 

Think beyond your Dating Limitations

Some of the most serious limitations toward realizing your true potential in dating it are your thoughts; a man can only be what he thinks he is. Regardless of where you live, where you work, you should adopt a positive attitude when it comes to dating. You should always see beyond your dating limitations and set your eyes on the prize!

Top 25 Highly Rated Kenya Dating Sites

Top 25 Dating Sites in Kenya : If you are looking for dating websites in Kenya, this list of the top 25 dating sites in Kenya is the most conclusive list you will come across. 

The list  has the links and screenshots of the best Kenya dating websites. If you believe in Kenya online dating, you might as well try your luck in any of these sites: 

                    Top 25 Kenya Dating Sites : #1) Kenya Cupid 

                     Top 25 Kenya Dating Sites : #2) Afro Introductions 

Top 25 Kenya Dating Sites : #4 ) Mpenzi 

Photos : Audrey, Andrew Mbugua Photos

Interview: Transgender Activist Audrey Mbugua SPEAKS OUT YouTube VIDEO Interview

Michael Douglas admits his THROAT CANCER was caused by ORAL SEX not SMOKING!

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Kitoto's Advice this Week : I am a MISERABLE DESPERATE wife !

Dear Kitoto,

I am a 40 and married for 15 years, but I am sad and frustrated. I got married to a businessman who had another family and many other children born out of wedlock. I am a civil    servant.

Immediately after we got married, he left all the responsibilities to me. He brought all his illegitimate children to my house, which was very burdensome. Whenever I complained, he would beat me up.

His first wife would travel and leave her children with me. I did everything for the children, including visiting them in school. This became too much and I developed ulcers. Every time I asked him for money he would remind me that I also earned a salary.

He is so adulterous. He sleeps around with different women. This has affected his business and he is now jobless.

I became so stressed at some stage that I suffered depression and a mild stroke. My doctor advised me to take a transfer and leave him. I did so, but he followed me to my new station. He started chasing after every woman he could sight and was once beaten up in town for pursuing somebody’s wife.

In the News : SHOCKING Hong Kong MAN Discovered He is a WOMAN after Doctor's Visit

HONG KONG  A 66-year-old who lived his whole life as a man was given a surprising diagnosis after visiting the doctor in Hong Kong with a swollen abdomen -- he was a woman.      

Doctors realised the patient was female after they found the swelling came from a large cyst on an ovary, the Hong Kong Medical Journal reported.

The condition was the result of two rare genetic disorders.                                       

The subject had Turner syndrome, which affects  girls and women and results from a problem with the chromosomes, with characteristics including infertility and short stature. But he also had congenital adrenal hyperplasia, increasing male hormones and making the patient, who had a beard and a "micropenis", appear like a man.

Article of the Week: The Great Deception That Is Romantic ‘Love’

I came across this interesting article and would like to share it here with my readers, I hope you find it interesting and join this debate : 

Whenever any of my buddies tells me he’s fallen in ‘love’, I always burst out laughing and take a deep gulp of my Tusker.

Romantic love is nothing more than western creation meant to fuel consumerism, individualism and otherwise deludes people into thinking that a person can love the other unconditionally.

If pure love exists, why doesn’t Njeri the CEO of XYZ ltd fall in love and MARRY Kamau, the mkokoteni dude?

Love is simply a way of