Choosing a girl to marry seems to be a daunting task facing many Kenyan bachelors, worse in the recent times there have been so much skepticism about getting married. I found this interesting article of how you can tell if the girl you are dating is wife material.
It’s hard out here on the dating
scene for men and women. Sometimes you might even find someone who holds your
attention for a while, but then you really have to sit down and think “Is she
really wifey material?”
She’s selfish and wants all the
attention on her at all times.
There is nothing worse than a
beautiful woman who is insecure. We all have our insecurities, but some women
take it way too far. If the girl you are dealing with is constantly all about
‘me, me, me’ then it’s best you run. This will lead to a one-sided marriage
that is all about her.
Marriage is a commitment between
two people who are willing to compromise their extremes to be with each other
and live a happy lifestyle. Someone who is selfish has no ability to compromise
and it will without a doubt lead to many arguments and eventually a nasty
divorce in which she will try to take all your money.
She’s really jealous and picky
about whom you associate yourself with.
If you never gave her a reason to
mistrust you, yet she acts weird when you are around certain girls that you
have befriended, then she’s just jealous. If you think putting a ring on her
finger will change anything, then you are sadly mistaken.
Don’t think it’s going to get
better just because you are her husband now. Her possessiveness is only going
to increase and there is nothing you can do. So if you think she’s needy and
jealous as your girlfriend, then be prepared for a world of pain when you guys
get married.
She doesn't get along with your
friends.
While this is the most difficult
part of any relationship, it is imperative that she gets along with your
friends. It is hard to find the proper balance between friends and a girlfriend
in any relationship. She may not like your friends, but it’s important that she
knows how to respect them because these are the people that have been with you
through it all.
If someone doesn't love you for
who you are, then they don’t deserve you. Period. There is no reason why you
should have to change for anyone. While compromise in a relationship does
encourage some change, these are usually just some minor adjustments. There is
no need for you to drastically change the way you go about things because your
other half wants you to.
She tries too hard to change you.
If someone doesn't love you for
who you are, then they don’t deserve you. Period. There is no reason why you
should have to change for anyone. While compromise in a relationship does
encourage some change, these are usually just some minor adjustments. There is
no need for you to drastically change the way you go about things because your
other half wants you to.
She can’t cook your favorite
dishes.
Now, we know it’s 2013 and
feminism is the latest trend taken up by American women. For some reason, women
find everything a man asks them to do offensive. Nowadays you can rarely find a
woman who takes pride in cooking for her man, it is truly a lost art.
Nowadays you can’t even get a
simple sandwich without getting an ear full. If she doesn't know how to make at
least 3 of your favorite dishes and doesn't plan on putting the effort into
learning how to make them, then she is not wifey material.
Reblog from Kenyan List
Reblog from Kenyan List
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